My husband and I have been married since 1976. I am a believer and he is not. He is an alcoholic ~ I do not drink. I attend church ~ he does not. I know you are wondering how and why we have stayed together all these years. We have been through many years of growing. We have raised three children ~ two from my first marriage. Through it all I have kept my eyes on Jesus for guidance and strength. My husband has told me that he sees the difference that God's Word has done, the difference from me attending Ladies Bible studies, Sunday School and church but he still will not attend. As he has watched a couple of Pastor Evans' UTube videos and then The Hurt Pocket Series he did appreciate what Pastor had to share but did not like the "preaching". I felt that the words that Pastor shared where helpful to me. Helped me understand. This series opened up some conversation (between me & my husband) that had needed to be opened up. It enabled me to bring up some things that had been on my mind and heart for a very long time. They needed to be said to get that "dirty laundry" aired out. I felt the seeds that Pastor Evans dropped were precious and I pray that our Holy Spirit will us them and continue to pray for our marriage. Over the years I have realized I cannot change my husband ~ that is the job of God. I appreciated the tools that Pastor Evans provides. I need to be the wife that God has called me to be, read His Word and apply it. Please pray for my husband and I. He does not want a divorce or to separate. He and I continue to work every minute of every day to save our marriage. I continue to pray for my husband's salvation and that some day my husband will know Jesus as his Lord & Savior. God Bless you and this ministry.